Everybody wants to get successful, yet so
few succeed in this pursuit. The conventional way of thinking is to first
define what success means to you. Whatever it means to you, you can’t get it
till you persist. This sounds rather obvious, yet the underlying meaning is
quite deep.
My observation suggests that many of us
fail to achieve what we want to because we simply get bored or frustrated or
hopeless. Many people don’t even start because they are intimidated at the
outset.
Take investing for instance. Investing is
not taught in school, so the onus falls on people to learn about it. The
average adult is naturally a bad student and doesn’t want to learn about stuff.
He/she looks for shortcuts and then takes bad decisions. Those who do start
studying tend to lose interest after some time because nothing seems to be
happening. At this point comes the barrage of data, research, expert views,
opinions that point at the futility of what you are trying to attempt.
Naturally, you lose track.
This is why persistence is so crucial. In
the world, what is commonplace is mediocrity, not excellence. This means the
information that readily comes to you is mediocre at best. Such information
originates from those who themselves are average humans. Paying attention to it
only makes you lose persistence. Time flies. You fail to succeed, but you also
get to hear about those who have succeeded just because they kept going.
All you need to do to succeed at almost
anything is don’t discard it. Losses, frustration, boredom, despair are a part
of the journey. If you simply hang on, over time the way will manifest itself.
That’s how you become the master. Mastery is nothing more than clinging onto
the path irrespective of what happens.
Beware especially of statistics. They
always suggest that you are more likely to fail than succeed. Getting mired in
data is perhaps the easiest way to not succeed.